'Do Not Lie About Being Pregnant In The Name Of Testing Your Man, It's Distasteful' Tobe Dadiva Tells Ladies

Former OAP at Dreamfm and Gouni Radio, Tobechi Nneji popularly known as Tobe Dadiva who now resides in the US took to her facebook page to dissuade ladies from using pregnancy to 'test their man's love' for them, according to the multi media single lady, 'It's very distasteful' 

Hear her out;

Dear ladies,
It is distasteful to lie about being pregnant. Very distasteful.It's worse when you try to use a play on emotional stress of being pregnant and unmarried, to put pressure on your boyfriend.
It's worse yet when you go ahead and build up half baked stories about the trauma you've been through and how painful it was to have an abortion and how much you've sacrificed.It's distasteful
If you ever get pregnant for a person you are with, the decision to keep the baby is YOURS. Take responsibility. It will stress you out and you will be confused but understand that YOU have the final say and YOU must take responsibility for YOUR decision.
If you have to pretend to be pregnant or exaggerate the situation to 'test his love', you already lost him and I dare say, you may have lost yourself as well. Pregnancy is a thing of joy (maybe, depending on your situation). Don't go out of your way to make it a stressful thought and process in the name of 'testing your man'. It's distasteful. Very.
Ok. Bye

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