Sometime ago, my neighbor had a heated argument with her houseboy. She was screaming so loud, so I heard everything. This dude committed a little domestic felony and my neighbor was mad, so mad that she turned so petty like from a zero to hundred percent PETTINESS!
While she was shouting she said
'I know why are you doing this, I 've warned you severally to desist from that but yet you disobey my orders and do it. It's because it's me, I'm a woman that's why. If it were your 'Oga' you wouldn't dare disobey him...she ranted on and on!
Wtf, I said in my mind, girrrrl, why so much pettiness over a little thing. He is her houseboy for crying out loud and is expected to obey orders in the house irrespective of what gender the instructor is.
So why would she go so low to compare herself with her husband in front of her help. That's so belittling and Petty. I was shocked but what do I know? But I do know it's wrong and petty of women to condescend to such statements and feelings whenever something doesn't work so well in their favors, its wrong! It's Sexist as a matter of fact. Take things how they come and do not relegate it your gender. Most people do not even consider this when making decisions and if they do, be there to correct them to treat as a human not a woman!
My 2cents!
You just maybe wrong, maybe just maybe the lady is lenient and the houseboy uses that weak point to misbehave
ReplyDeleteshes not lenient.
ReplyDeleteEven if she is, she should talk about her leniency not her gender